I suppose I can see why teens and twenty-somethings are not enamoured of this fragrance. It is mature, sophisticated, and yes, even sexy. I cannot imagine any sophisticated man would not want to snuggle up with his lady whilst she was wearing this. This is one of the few B&BW fragrances I have been able to love in the last ten years.
Personally, I think it leans feminine, but I have not had the opportunity to smell it on a chap. I suppose a man could wear this pretty easily if he wanted to do. I have only the body spray, but the next time the body creme goes on sale, I might have to pick up a tube. Probably will buy a back up of this as well. I am rating this as a B&BW body spray not in comparison to high end perfumes like Guerlain, Chanel, and Amouage. Still, I think it is sophisticated and classy enough to compete with many of the perfumes offered by those houses.