In the summer of 2020, I had my "Gather Epiphany," and it was a powerful Aha moment. Since then, the relationship has normalized... :) I just took Falling out of my collection a few days ago. Something in the aging process didn't turn out well; the chemistry just wasn't right last winter anymore... It's become too bitter. That's why I'm a bit skeptical about Sweater Stories, but I'll get a sample and test it over a longer period.