10 years ago
Well, the riddle is either sillier or more difficult than I thought in the first place...
Scarletting, I suppose you were talking about John Churchill, 1st Duke of Marlborough, whose title was created by Queen Anne and not about Winston.
Triffid, your approach was quite innovating and out of the box, but Queen Elizabeth II was never actually Alexander's boss, at least not with him being any kind of commander, as he resigned from the army in 1946, while the Queen was coronated in 1953.
So, since I think I'll go with "sillier", here's some help...
1) This commander can be also spelled with a capital C, because commander is actually the rank he holds.
2) Both possible spouses are fictitious.
3) The lady's supposed name would be the exact name of the fragrance.
4) Neither his nor her name (the ones needed to solve the puzzle) are names literally. They both do have real names and although the Commander's is extremely famous for many years, hers was virtually unknown until recently.
5) She was his boss for just six years. Before her all his bosses were men. His current boss is also a man.