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Attendre & Espérer 2023

6.8 / 10 26 Ratings
A perfume by Frapin for women and men, released in 2023. The scent is spicy-green. It is still in production.
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Main accords

Spicy
Green
Woody
Fresh
Citrus

Fragrance Pyramid

Top Notes Top Notes
Black pepperBlack pepper Salted caramelSalted caramel Italian lemonItalian lemon NeroliNeroli
Heart Notes Heart Notes
CardamomCardamom IrisIris
Base Notes Base Notes
NutsNuts Atlas cedarAtlas cedar Haitian vetiverHaitian vetiver
Ratings
Scent
6.826 Ratings
Longevity
7.122 Ratings
Sillage
6.923 Ratings
Bottle
7.025 Ratings
Value for money
5.616 Ratings
Submitted by Franfan20, last update on 08/05/2025.

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3 in-depth fragrance descriptions
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itscoraline

137 Reviews
itscoraline
itscoraline
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Solidly Unusual
The bad news: I was not prepared for the absolute firehose to the face of black pepper in the opening. I enjoy a pepper note but was momentarily overwhelmed by just how strong it was.

The good news: the pepper fades in about 10 minutes, replaced by a fleeting, softly spiced iris heart that is almost immediately replaced by the nutty vetiver base.

The great news: the real star of the show here is that nut accord. It’s reminiscent of the scent that rises as you chop walnuts — warmly nutty with a slightly dusty edge. It lends the fragrance a sense of solidity and confidence, and mixed with the vetiver and a hint of cedar it turns surprisingly cozy, like wearing a comfy old sweater you found in a winter cabin.

I didn’t expect to like this as much as I do — I couldn’t stop burying my face in my wrists all day just to get another hit of that comforting yet unusual base.

Projection and longevity are both moderate, and although unisex it leans slightly to the masculine coded side of the scale.
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7
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6
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7
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DRKSHDW

116 Reviews
DRKSHDW
DRKSHDW
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WAIT AND HOPE: A BITTERSWEET ODE TO VETIVER
“Attendre & Espérer” is French for “Wait and Hope.” It’s the final line from The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas, carrying a quiet sense of endurance, longing, and bittersweet resilience. Those emotions, felt deeply by the character, seem to echo in the very fabric of this fragrance. I enjoyed this scent. There’s a restrained warmth to it, like a memory of home or something comforting you can almost touch, but never quite hold. The bittersweet mood of the phrase mirrors the bittersweet scent.

It opens with a soft touch of sweetness — caramel-cookie undertones, with a sharp burst of black pepper. A bitter walnut note follows, earthy and dry, adding an intriguing twist. That fleeting warmth vanishes quickly, giving way to the real heart of the fragrance: vetiver.

The vetiver is peppery, rooty, dry, bitter, and nutty — a full expression of the material’s rugged beauty. Cedar stays quietly in the background, adding structure without ever taking focus.

The fragrance leans masculine. It’s solid and composed, never loud or flashy.

A very interesting take on the vetiver, where the juxtaposition of caramel and bitter vetiver creates a complex balance. The walnut / nutty notes further enhance the vetiver’s texture, adding depth, and making the overall composition feel multidimensional.
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Alucard99

27 Reviews
Alucard99
Alucard99
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Cookies from my youth
This is so strange but so nice
The start is like a cookie smell.
When i was young my mom made some cookie and the smell was all day long this smell at home. So sweet and strong caramel, than later cardamom and pepper hits up. And the smell changes to topical dark men’s perfume
Its really good not 2 strong and not 2 soft. I guess its ok for a men of 40+ age.
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DRKSHDWDRKSHDW 5 months ago
5
Bottle
7
Sillage
6
Longevity
7
Scent
Bittersweet, vetiver-centric fragrance—peppery & dry. The caramel is a clever twist, adding just enough sweetness to temper the sharp edges.
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FreshKatsuFreshKatsu 2 years ago
6
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6
Sillage
6
Longevity
7
Scent
Nutty caramel opening that turns into spicy, woody mothball. Oddly comforting like embracing an old forgotten coat in a wardrobe
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